Why Dating Shouldn’t Be A DIY Project

Getting to know someone better, having fun together, and being romantic is all part of dating. Dating can be about exploring if there is potential for a long-term relationship or just about having fun without expectations.

However, when we start looking for a long-term partner or enter into a romantic relationship, many of us take dating as a DIY project with a predetermined set of (often unrealistic) expectations, such as how the person should look, how the relationship should progress, and the roles each partner should fulfill. As a result, these expectations can make any potential partner seem inadequate and any new relationship feel disappointing.

To help you understand why it is so important to ask for help, Date Your Destiny has listed a few reasons why dating should not be a DIY project.

Can develop future relationship snags

Choosing unhealthy partners or moving out of a cohabitation scenario can cause undue emotional and financial stress. Also, settling for less of what you need to flourish in a relationship lowers self-esteem. Being in a codependent relationship can leave emotional scars for life.

It can cost you money and frustration

There are so many reasons why a relationship can go sour. But the biggest cost of relationship failure is money-related. Choosing the wrong romantic partner can lead to an expensive divorce, which can then lead to financial support payments, moving expenses, and even years in psychotherapy. So being unskilled at choosing who to share your life with can cost you tons of money and frustration.

Do things right - Hire a professional!

If you choose to date without learning the skills of dating for a healthy partner, you will find yourself reliving the same unconscious patterns that have sabotaged your love life in the past. For this reason, it’s important to seek professional guidance to not only help you find the right person, but to move from casual dating to an emotionally healthy, committed, loving relationship.

Hiring a Dating Coach can speed up your journey in meeting the love of your life, offer accountability and hold your vision of true love when you want to settle for less. Dating Coaches believe in your vision and support your worthiness by teaching the skills of love for a relationship that lasts a lifetime.

As a Love and Dating Coach myself, I would definitely hire a coach for any area of my life that I deem important to succeed in, for example, when I hired a personal trainer or a business coach. I had someone in my corner, I got tough love when necessary to get out of my own way, and I got faster results than I could have on my own. 

So don’t wait for love to find you; take action! 

Get in touch with me today!

A Dating Coach can cost anywhere from $100 to $500 per hour. It is well worth the price to avoid years of loneliness, bad dates and unnecessary heartbreak. To have the love of your life in your arms is priceless. 

If you’re looking for a love and dating coach, reach out to me at Date Your Destiny.

Hi, I’m coach Krysia, a Certified Love Coach with a degree in psychology and a student of sacred sexuality. I bring an effective suite of practical tools to help my single male and female clients resolve toxic patterns, defuse limiting beliefs, increase romantic esteem, and learn winning dating strategies that maximize attraction to cultivate that extraordinary special connection for a relationship that lasts a lifetime.

My services are available to clients across Toronto, Ontario, Canada, North America, Europe, Australia, and New Zealand.

To learn more about the services I offer, please click here. 

To get in touch with me, please click here or email me at krysia@dateyourdestiny.ca.